Re: Tickets for the holidays (Aug. 29)

The Voice published a letter from a Warwick woman seeking “tickets for the holidays,” explaining that she and her husband “are empty-nesters who do not belong to a synagogue.”  She seemed to think it obvious that people without children at home have no need for synagogue membership. In my mind she has a “Brigadoon” complex.

Remember the old Broadway show about Brigadoon, the Scottish town that rises up out of the mists every hundred years?  This woman expects a synagogue to rise up every autumn so that she can attend Yom Tov services. Meanwhile, who does she think has been providing throughout the year for everything from repairing the roof to paying the rabbi’s salary to buying lightbulbs?  Who has been maintaining the schoolrooms for a new generation of Jewish-thinking children?  Who is aware that without a reliable revenue stream the synagogue will not survive into another High Holy Day season? It’s the members, that’s who – many of whom are empty-nesters, as I am.

I’ve been retired for 15 years and must live modestly, but I couldn’t imagine NOT supporting my congregation so that it will always be there for me.

Myra B. Shays
Providence, R.I.

Wendy responds: We agree and respect your concerns regarding sustaining synagogue life in Rhode Island. The High Holy Day Ticket Initiative is a one-time opportunity for people.

After someone participates once, they may not participate again. Eagerly endorsed by the synagogues, this program has opened the doors for many and has led to new synagogue memberships. It is a wonderful way to welcome people and introduce or reintroduce the lifelong benefits of synagogue membership. 

I wish you a happy and sweet New Year!